Questions and Answers: Valentine's Day Edition

 

Questions and Answers 
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These are my exact answers to these questions.

Question:

What's the most romantic thing someone has ever done for you?

My Answer:

No one has ever done anything romantic for me....Wait there was this one guy, way back in the day. He was a trick, he brought me a pair of earrings. It was new to me because men never buy me jewelry. I don't know if the earrings he gave me were really for me or not though. They could've been for someone else and the other person didn't come through or something. 

Question:

What's the biggest mistake you've made in past relationships?

My Answer: 

I've never been in any relationships. Therefore I've never made any mistakes.

Question:

Have you ever hurt someone you loved? How did it effect you? 

My Answer: 

I've never hurt anyone. 

Question:

What's the most painful experience you've had in a relationship and how did it change you?

My Answer:

Again, I've never been in a relationship, therefore I had no painful experiences. 

Question:

What's your favorite love story ( movie, book, real life) ? 

Answer:

I guess my favorite love story is the Diary of A Mad Black Woman movie. I don't even like Tyler Perry but the ending was a fairytale. The I Can Do bad All By Myself movie was a fairytale ending too.

Question:

Do you believe in soul mates?

My Answer:

Yes. I do believe that some people can find their true soul mate. I've seen some people stay together all of their life. Not all people can have soul mates though. 

Question:

Is there something that you'd find hard to forgive in a loved one?

My Answer:

Yes. I don't like snitches and liars. I find them hard to forgive. I can pretend to make peace with them but they would never be truly forgiven. They crossed a line that doesn't deserve full forgiveness. 

Question:

Is there someone you wish you could forgive but can't?

My Answer:

No. 

Question:

Describe your perfect man.

My Answer: 

A man that is super rich, willing to share his wealth, super healthy, isn't gay or bi, and has never sucked other men's penises or allowed them to suck his, and doesn't sleep with lame gay women and isn't racist, a liar, abusive in any way, or sneaky. Oh, and a real protector and a supportive person. Someone that wouldn't turn their whole back on me for a dollar, a drug, or a new piece of p*ssy. And someone who will take a drug test, a lie detector test, and a STD test for me before the conversation even starts. 

Question:

What's the worst thing you can say on a first date?

My Answer

The worst thing a man can do is ask me do I like girls and if I'll have a threesome. I will never speak to him again! 

Question:

What's the worst date that you have ever been on?

My Answer:

I've been out on alot of worst dates. Too many to mention. All of them sucked.

Question:

How do you balance online and offline expressions of love on Valentine's Day?

My Answer:

I don't.

Question:

What is the most memorable Valentine's Day surprise you've received, whether online or in person?

My Answer:

I've never received anything memorable.

Question:

How do you create a romantic atmosphere both online and in real life?

My Answer: 

I don't need to create a romantic atmosphere unless I'm creating one for myself. I would do that by cooking myself my favorite meal- which happens to be lobster and filet mignon, maybe lighting a candle, drinking a glass of wine, and eating Valentine's Day chocolate or something while listening to soft music.

Question:

If you could plan the perfect Valentine's Day date, what would it include and why?

My Answer:

I would probably travel to a five star luxury hotel, try some expensive caviar over toasted butter bread with cream cheese, and eat lobster or crab legs with filet mignon while drinking a the most expensive Macallan 25 on the market, and maybe have a glass of Dom Perignom or Don Julio 1942, while the sun is setting, in my finest all white attire, and a long all white fur coat, while burning all white candles. I would probably get in a jacuzzi and relax with pink rose petals while smoking a big fat blunt of the finest cannabis. 

Oya Obinidodo vday meal

Valentine's Day meal I prepared for myself 
(Augason Farms spinach, lobster with butter sauce, and bacon wrapped filet mignon- paired with the Free Seeker Rose wine below)
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Question:

What are the biggest advantages of being single that you appreciate the most?

My Answer:

I get to make my own decisions, wear what I what, go wherever I want, sleep with whoever I want, and buy whatever I want and stay out as late as I want and curse and drink as much as I want without being questioned or stopped.



Question:

What is a common misconception about being single that you'd like to debunk?

My Answer:

People always assume that I'm jealous of people that are in love. I'm not. I wish all of them the best.


Valentine's Day treats I got for myself 
(Rose wine that I never tried before, my favorite chocolate, and Sriracha peas)
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My BAC after one glass of Free Seeker Rose 6:30 pm. It would take 3 more glasses to be over the limit.
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My BAC immediately after drinking the second glass of Free Seeker Rose. 8:15 pm. Mind you, this result is immediately after drinking it....no time to recover or calm down ....
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Oya Obinidodo BAC

My BAC three hours later, at 11:30 PM.  
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