Oya Obinidodo Q&A | Domestic Violence Edition
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| Q&A DV Edition |
These are my responses to these nineteen domestic violence questions. They are my exact words. I don't steal anything from people. I'm not a thief. Just because I'm being bullied and neglected, doesn't mean that I don't have a brain.
Q: What are some common signs of domestic violence that individuals should be aware of in their relationships?
My Answer:
Stalking, excessive phonecalls, threats, physical abuse, teasing, bullying, stealing, lying, cheating and so on.
Q: How can survivors of domestic violence begin to rebuild their lives after leaving an abusive situation?
My Answer:
They can stay away from their abusers and focus on themselves. They don't have to be so horny and quick to get in the bed with anyone. They can mind their business and begin the healing process, which takes a long time. It doesn't happen overnight.
Q: In what ways can friends and family provide support to someone who is experiencing domestic violence?
My Answer:
They can be a listening ear, give them money, help them find a safe escape route, attend their events, don't judge them, don't bully them, don't be incestuous and cruel towards them, and don't molest them, tease them, or harass them. They can choose to not be the abuser, and be better people towards the survivor. Running across people that are clean and genuine are hard to come by so it may take some time.
Q: What role do community resources and organizations play in assisting survivors of domestic violence?
My Answer:
Some organizations and resources provide homeless shelters and counseling services for the survivors.
Q. How can education and awareness programs help prevent domestic violence in society?
My Answer:
The more people educate themselves about the topic, the less likely they are to become a victim and the more knowledge they will have to help someone else who is being victimized.
Q. What are the psychological effects of domestic violence on survivors, and how can they begin to heal?
My Answer:
Domestic violence can have long lasting psychological effects. It can cause schizophrenia, post traumatic stress, body dysmorphia, depression, anxiety, and other serious mental health conditions. Survivors can heal by watching domestic violence survivors on TV or by creating their own support group. They can also see a mental health professional and get on medication if they need to. They can seek counseling services and/or develop a spiritual relationship with a higher power of their choice if they need to.
Q. In what ways can survivors of domestic violence empower themselves during the recovery process?
My Answer:
They can empower themselves by taking care of themselves, grooming themselves daily, and taking care of their health. They can get on platforms and speak out about what they been through and they can look at themselves in the mirror everyday without blaming themselves for what happened.
Q. How can social media be used as a tool for raising awareness about domestic violence and supporting survivors?
My Answer:
Survivors can post stories, fundraisers, non profit organizations, and domestic violence awareness events to raise awareness on social media.
Q. What challenges do survivors of domestic violence face when seeking legal protection or justice?
My Answer:
I don't know about other survivors but me personally, I always face challenges when it comes to seeking justice. No one cares about what I went through and a lot of people turn their backs and become predatory like the abuser was!
Q. How can workplaces create a supportive environment for employees who may be experiencing domestic violence?
My Answer:
They can start by not judging the victim and be a listening ear and be empathetic and understanding towards them and not be harsh, cruel, or abusive themselves. They can give them extra hours at work if they need money and also give them external resources to help them better themselves.
Q. What are some effective coping strategies for survivors of domestic violence as they navigate their recovery?
My Answer:
Survivors can cope by exercising, practicing yoga, or by playing a sport. They can practice breathing techniques or develop a routine everyday. They can practice mindfulness. They could go to therapy or they could read books about DV and educate themselves. They can also seek spiritual advice from their higher power.
Q. How does cultural background influence the experience and response to domestic violence among survivors?
My Answer:
I do not know.
Q. In what ways can storytelling and sharing experiences help other survivors of domestic violence?
My Answer:
Survivors can learn survival techniques from other survivors.
Q. What role does financial independence play in helping survivors of domestic violence escape abusive situations?
My Answer:
Survivors who are financially independent are more likely to escape domestic violence than someone who is low income or in poverty. They have money for security and better, safer, housing.
Q. How can children who witness domestic violence be supported in their emotional and psychological development?
My Answer:
Their parent or guardians can start by being supportive. They can listen to them and help them cope without preying on them. They can take them places where kids like to go so they can enjoy their youth and distract them from the trauma that they saw. They need to be taught to stay away from bullies and kids that might be mean to them.
Q. What are some misconceptions about domestic violence that need to be addressed in society?
My Answer:
Myth #1: Everyone who has been abused deserved it and are bad people.
Truth: Everyone who went through DV did not deserve it.
Myth #2: Only poor people experience DV.
Truth: People from all walks of life experience DV. Some are poor and some are rich and are millionaires. DV does not have a color, race, gender, or economic status.
Q. How can medical professionals better recognize and assist patients who may be victims of domestic violence?
My Answer:
They should look for signs like black or swollen eyes, busted lips or swollen lips, burns, cuts, scrapes, stab wounds, gun shot wounds, missing limbs, unexplained bruises, withdrawal from society, sadness, excessive crying, constant fear or terror, starvation or malnutrition, sexually transmitted diseases, financial instability, shakiness, or any other visible signs of trauma.
Q. What are the long-term effects of domestic violence on relationships and family dynamics?
My Answer:
DV can ruin relationships and permanently destroy families.
Q. How can survivors advocate for themselves and their needs during the healing process?
My Answer:
They can speak up for themselves. Isolate themselves from anyone who doesn't protect them or believe their side of the story, stand for justice, and don't give up.
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