Embracing Resilience: My Journey with 'Living Around Dangerous Human Predators Part 2'

Empty meeting room 

It’s hard to shake the feeling of disappointment when expectations fall flat. Last year, I poured my heart into organizing a couple of events that didn’t pan out. One sticks in my mind—the domestic violence support group held at the same library where my upcoming book signing will take place. I sat there, waiting for participants, feeling an array of emotions wash over me as the clock ticked away with no one in sight. It was a painful reminder of how challenging it can be to garner support for essential conversations.

Fast forward to now: I’m preparing for my book signing event for  Living Around Dangerous Human Predators and How to Survive Them Part 2: A Survival Guide. As the date approaches, I’ve made a conscious decision not to carry that past hurt into this new experience. If no one shows up again, I won’t let it define me. I won’t slip into self-doubt as I did last year. Instead, I plan to embrace the moment, no matter the turnout, and will treat myself afterward—because self-care is crucial and I deserve to acknowledge my efforts.

The theme of my book is particularly relevant in today’s society. It’s about recognizing and surviving toxic behaviors and relationships. I understand that not everyone may resonate with the topics I discuss, especially since I approach them from my own unique perspective. I am aware that my views can be polarizing, especially since I don't want these gay, nasty women in my presence. But my mission - to help others navigate dangerous behaviors - remains at the forefront of what I do, whether people take me seriously or not.

While my book doesn’t cater to those who would fit the category of predators—because, frankly, that’s exactly who I caution against—I believe in the importance of addressing these issues, even if it means standing alone. I’m learning to appreciate the journey for what it is: an opportunity to grow, an outlet for my voice, and a chance to connect with those who find value in the conversations everyone should be having.

In the end, success is not measured solely by numbers but by the courage to share my truth. So, whether my book signing is a gathering of more than just myself or a quiet afternoon, I’ll hold my head high, recognizing the strength I carry.

Here’s to resilience, the journey of self-exploration, and the hope that somewhere, someone will find solace in the words I’ve penned. I will continue to uplift and empower my own self in the face of adversity, no matter how lonely the path may sometimes feel. 

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