Questions and Answers: March 2025 Part 3

Q&A
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These are my exact answers to these questions.

Question: What was the last thing you ate?

My Answer: A Gansito.

Question: Is that your favorite snack?

My Answer: I have a lot of favorites snacks, and yes, Gansito is one of them.

Question: Is it true that you can't go back inside of another nightclub because it's too many gays?

My Answer: Yes that's true. There are way too many gays inside of these nightclubs. I can not enjoy myself at all. The whole VA party scene is tranny, homo, and dyke infested. I'm too straight for that. I don't want to run into them. 

Question: So how do you meet men?

My Answer: I don't. I used to meet men online, but I stopped doing that last year.

Question: Why?

My Answer: Because the men are way too easy in bed. If anyone can have them, then I don't want them. I don't want to share them with these nasty bitches and niggas out here. I might get set up really bad or I might catch something if I don't test them. I could even get killed if they get too jealous. It's just too many risk.

Question: What were some of the sites that you used to meet those men? 

My Answer: Well some of the men used to reach out to me from jail and I would use inmate websites to communicate with them. Then there were other men that I met on ListCrawler and MintBoys. 

Question: How many men did you meet last year? 

My Answer: I only met four guys last year. I met two of them on Mint Boys, one incarcerated, and I met one guy in person while I was making a music video. Those sites that I mentioned are extremely gay. 98% of the men are bisexual. I prefer straight men over bisexuals. 

Question: What about the one you met while you was making a music video? Do you still talk to him?

My Answer: No. I don't talk to anyone. It didn't work out. He was too fake. 

Question: And the one that was incarcerated?

My Answer: He was too fake too. 

Question: It's Friday night. How are you spending it?

My Answer: I'm not doing anything. There's no where to go. Just waiting around until Monday. I have very important business that I have to tend to next week. 

Question: Would you care to explain?

My Answer: No. I don't. 

Question: What do you think are the main reasons why men won't take care of you?

My Answer: They either have a wife already, a girlfriend, or they are gay and have a boyfriend, or a husband, or they are broke and don't have a job, or they have too many kids, or they are racist and think that I don't deserve anything from anyone just because I'm black, or all of the above. Or it's because maybe they're a pimp, a gigaglo, or a male prostitute and think that I should be taking care of them instead of the other way around. 

Question: Does it hurt you to see men spoiling other women- like buying them cars or houses or paying for their nails and hair, fancy jewelry, or giving them money to support their dreams?

My Answer: First of all, I don't care about nails, and I can buy my own hair- that's petty stuff. But as far as the other stuff goes, yes it does hurt. That's why I never pay attention to it. I ignore anything that hurts. If I somehow get a glimpse of a woman being spoiled by a man, I turn my head and look the other way. Even on TV. 

Question: It got to hurt that they won't support you. Do you ever react negatively?

My Answer: Back in the day I used to let stuff like that get the me. Not anymore. Like I said, I look the other way and I block people who flex in my face and show off. Why should I pay attention and allow them to hurt my feelings? I realized that I could be minding my business and paying attention to something else. 

Question: So you have two children. How old were you when you had them and how old are they now?

My Answer: I was 17 and 19. One is 19 and one is 17. 

Question: Where are the dads?

My Answer: There is only one dad and I don't know. I haven't spoken to him since 2008. I don't know his whereabouts. 

Question: Does that hurt you too?

My Answer: It used to hurt me, but after my dad died in 2018 and no one was there to support me, I realized that he was just a bully and a predator like everyone else, and I let it go. The fact that he went missing doesn't hurt me anymore. It wasn't meant for me to know who he is. I've never been married or in a relationship. I only had one night stands. I was treated like a piece of meat. There are people who have been married or in a relationship for 20 years and still have to get a divorce and go their separate ways. It gotta hurt more for them. How can I hurt over someone I had a one night stand with? There wasn't even a connection from the start. 

Question: When you say your dad died in 2018, did that hurt you?

My Answer: It did in the beginning but not anymore. I can't cry over my dad either. He didn't take care of me. He abandoned me. He never took care of me. How can I cry over someone that abandoned me? He never taught me how to do anything either. He was very skilled at building houses and sailing yachts. He was also skilled at electrical work and was in the military at one point but he never taught me how to do anything! The only thing I learned from my dad is how to catch a DWI! 

Everytime I asked him why he didn't help raise me, he responded by telling me that he couldn't take care of me because my mother was a heartless "bitch"- using those exact words. He used to call my mom a bitch a lot and said that she was the only reason why he couldn't do anything for me. I guess I understand. 

Question: Your birthday is almost a couple of weeks away, do you have any plans?

My Answer: No, I thought I said that already! No dinner reservations, no shopping, no clubbing, no date night, no travel plans, no expensive gifts, no new car, no new condo, no partying - nothing! I gets nothing!

Question: When was the last time you went to a regular church service or bible study?

My Answer: between 8 years to 10 years ago or longer. I'm not stepping foot inside of another church. 

Question: How have you been dealing with being a devotee of Santa Muerte around your Christian religious mother?

My Answer: I keep my religious beliefs a secret. I haven't burned a candle in months, and I don't have any statues. I'm being spied on. I have no privacy. I don't want anyone to speak to me or say anything to me about my beliefs in Santa Muerte. It's not their business. I'm not bullying them for being a Christian, so they shouldn't bully me for not being one. I am not affiliated with other Santa Muerte devotees. 

Question: Have you been looking for another place to stay?

My Answer: Yeah, but I can't afford anything. Everything is too high. The poverty I'm forced to go through is disgusting on another level. I'm gonna die one day anyway. Might as well die poor and homeless. 

Question: Do you believe that you'll ever have your own home?

My Answer: No. No one wants to see me in my own home. They want to see me homeless, dead, living with my mother, or in jail. The world doesn't love me. No one cares about me or my feelings. They're incestuous, gay, and abusive people towards me. They annoy me, bully me, and they infest me with gay, incestuous, retarded nastiness 365 days a year. I keep getting bullied and degraded by a bunch of nasty, close knit, hillbilly people that I don't even know and I can't make them back off or stop.

Question: Is there anything else that you would like to add?

My Answer: No.