Questions and Answers: March 2025 Edition Part 9

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These are my exact answers to these questions.

Question: What was the last thing that you ate?

My Answer: A plain grilled hotdog and potato chips.

Question: Who grilled it, you?

My Answer: Yes. I always grill my own food. 

Question: Tell us a little bit about your alter ego - Oya Negra Kapone. Does she still exist?

My Answer: Yeah, that side of me is laying low. Oya Negra Kapone has the same personality as me, just a different name. Both are the same person. 

Question: What made you choose that name?

My Answer: It just came to me at the top of my head while I was writing "On the East Coast". I liked the way it sounded. 

Question: So Oya Negra Kapone doesn't do anything that you wouldn't do?

My Answer: Exactly. The only difference between me and the Oya Negra Kapone side of me is that Oya Negra Kapone likes to hide for long periods of time. Oya Negra Kapone can hide for several months without being noticed. 

Question: You don't have a split personality do you?

My Answer: No I don't. Definitely not. 

Question: What else is on your mind?

My Answer: Well, I came up with an idea for a 15 minute short film. I wanted to write the script and submit it to a film festival but I don't feel like it. I wanted to turn it into a film but I can't find two gay guys to play the role. All these gays out here and I can't even find two of them that's willing to act in my short film. Gay men won't even work with me because I'm not gay. I have to be gay in order for them to be useful.

Basically the short film starts off where I'm in a hotel with a guy that I had been dating for a month named Travis Rosenberg (one of the characters from my Terror Firsthand blog series). I didn't know that he was gay until I heard his song "Pimping Back in Style". I heard the song while he had stepped out for a few hours to go get a haircut. Which is what he said he'd be doing. I realized it was his voice in the song and the cartoon on the cover looked exactly like him. 

I researched the name Mr. Nutenya on my phone and found out that it really was Travis Rosenberg and that he was into gay porn and had made alot of them. I start packing my things to leave the hotel and he quickly walks back in the room and tries to stop me and asks me what's wrong. I told him that I heard his song and that I didn't even know that he was into music because he never mentioned it nor did he mention being bisexual, nor did he mention Rosenberg Productions. I was completely blind to his behavior. He was living a double life with me. 

He says "It's not what you think." and tries to stop me from leaving. I start playing the song. His lyrics "A man gay as me hoe, you'll never find" and "I sucked off a lot of men I'm on my grind" came out of the speaker. Then I say "You're nasty!" And walk out of the hotel room.

Then in the next scene he's in the car with his boyfriend and he says "Babe, she finally left." and his boyfriend says "Good, now give big daddy some head". Then his boyfriend pulls out his d*ck and Travis Rosenberg starts going down on him. His boyfriend starts moaning and then he has an orgasm. Then Travis Rosenberg gets back on the phone and tries to call me, but I don't answer. He sends me a text saying "Baby I miss you. I want some of that cat. Let's make up." I felt betrayed and lied to and knew that something wasn't right with the guy and blocked his number. Then he says to his boyfriend "I'm not letting that bitch get away." And then the short film goes off. 

Question: Wow, sounds like you probably would win a prize at the festivals for that one huh?

My Answer: Yeah, but I don't have a decent camera and I don't have two gay men to play the role. I was thinking about renting a Sony camera. They're like $100 a week online. I've never rented a camera before. I really need to step my game up. 

Question: Since you can't find anyone to play those roles, do you think you could write a script that doesn't require them?

My Answer: I probably can, but that's hard to do. Teamwork makes the dream work, and I don't have a team. 

Question: Well maybe if you keep searching, you'll find what you're looking for, don't you think?

My Answer: I'll try, but I don't wanna get my hopes up. All these sassy gay men out here are going to say "Don't nobody wanna be in her film." I know how they are. They're completely useless. That's why I banned gay men from my life anyway. They're not even useful for a film. 

Question: Have you found any grand openings to attend lately?

My Answer: No. This is not New York City. This is Virginia. There's a grand opening today for Dollar Tree but I rather go to a more lavish grand opening than that if you know what I mean. I rather go to a fancy, high class, elegant, night club and lounge grand opening, a lavish hotel grand opening, or a lavish restaurant grand opening. Besides, I just went to a Dollar Tree this past weekend. I don't need anything else from there.

Question: I'm sure you're not going to New York. You hate it don't you?

My Answer: Yeah. The whole state of New York smells like dead corpses, rotten fish, and rotten flesh and human decay. I would never go back. Especially for that gay ass nightlife scene. New York sucks. Traveling as a solo black woman is not easy. I need to be rich in order to stay safe. I can't get these lil funky, fake, yucky, incestuous, downlow gay women off me. They tell alot of lies on me. They're sick and insane. These little dirty f*cking b*tches are disgusting out here. It's my responsibility to protect myself from them. I can't go anywhere with $1,000. That's not going to get me anywhere these days. Gotta have more than that to my name.

Question: Is there anything else that you would like to add?

My Answer: Nope that's it.