The Struggles of Modern Dating: Oya Obinidodo Speaks Out

Chinchilla Scrilla- If you see me in public 
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Oya Obinidodo is back in the spotlight, this time pouring her heart out about the struggles she's faced in the dating scene. "I’m tired of men asking for my number everywhere I go," she confided, the frustration evident in her voice. 

Every day, she encounters men who seem genuinely interested, only to be left in the lurch after a mere day of conversation. "I give them my number and they only talk to me for about one day and then they move on. It's traumatizing," she explained, her emotions raw and real. "It's like they ask for my number just to bully me. I rather they not speak to me at all. They're all being evil, selfish, and gross to me. Its like meeting the same monster over and over. They're all the same." It’s a cycle that has left her feeling disheartened and defeated, as if the game of dating is rigged against her before she even steps onto the field.

What’s more troubling is how the stigma of being disabled affects her relationships. "They pick on me after they find out that I’m disabled," she said, tears filling her eyes. "They call me detagatory names like 'funky tard', a man, and 'gay lady' and they all abuse and neglect me."  It’s a painful reality that she alone often faces, where misconceptions and prejudice can overshadow a person’s true worth and character.

But Oya Obinidodo isn’t letting these setbacks define her. Instead, she’s channeling her emotions into her art. Her newly released AI track titled "If You See Me In Public " is a reflection of her experiences and a testament to her resilience. It's available now on her PlayTV channel, where she opens up about her journey, and invites listeners to empathize with her truth.

In a world where many single women are looking for genuine connections, Oya Obinidodo’s story exemplifies the hardships they often face. It's a call to action for society to reflect on how you engage with others and to be more mindful of the impact your actions have.

Help support Oya Obinidodo by promoting kindness, understanding, and authentic connections. Head over to her PlayTV channel, listen to her new AI track by Chinchilla Scrilla, and be inspired to break the cycle of hurt that seems all too common in today’s dating world. By doing this, you can foster an environment where everyone feels valued and respected. 

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